The labels, comparisons and self-doubt that can stop you from being the face of your business - and how to move beyond them.
You believe you are “not photogenic”
One of the things that can stop business owners from being in front of the camera has nothing to do with the camera itself. It has much more to do with the labels we have given ourselves, and sometimes those labels have even been given to us by other people.
We believe and behave according to the labels that define us, and when we repeat them often enough, they can start to feel like facts rather than opinions.
“I am not photogenic.”
“I hate having my photograph taken.”
“I never look good in pictures.”
“I am just not the kind of person who looks natural in front of a camera.”
The problem with these statements is that they can become little locks. They keep us inside a cage where we believe there is nothing we can do about the way we look in photographs because we have already decided what the result will be before we have even tried.
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The good news is that those locks are not as strong as we think.
You can open the cage.
For example, instead of saying:
“I am not photogenic.”
Say:
“I am learning to feel more confident and natural in front of the camera.”
Instead of:
“I hate being photographed.”
Say:
“I am exploring the best ways to showcase my personality in photographs.”
It might sound like a small change in wording, but there is a significant difference between defining yourself by a limitation and recognising that something is a skill or an experience you can explore.
And this brings me to something I often see when I talk to people about being photographed.
Your worst critic might be sitting inside your own head
We are often our own worst critics, and when we stand in front of a camera, that critical voice can suddenly become much louder.
You notice the things you normally ignore. Your face looks different from the one you see in the mirror. You suddenly become aware of your posture, your hands, your hair, your clothes, your body, your expression and approximately seventeen other things that you were perfectly happy to ignore five minutes earlier.
This is where I think it is useful to identify what I call the Silent Saboteurs of Self-Worth.
They are the thoughts and habits that can quietly interfere with the way we see ourselves and, consequently, the way we present ourselves in front of the camera.
The Judge
The Judge is that critical voice that immediately starts looking for what is wrong.
Your face is not symmetrical enough.
You look tired.
You don't like your profile.
Your arms look bigger than you thought.
You look older than you expected.
You don't like your smile.
You look nothing like the person you imagined you were going to look like.
And once the Judge gets started, it can be very difficult to stop it.
One of the reasons people feel nervous about having their photograph taken is that they feel they have very little control over the final result. They are expected to stand in front of a camera and somehow trust that the person behind it is going to create something they will actually like.
This is why preparation matters so much.
Choosing the right outfit, understanding the style of the photographs, deciding what kind of environment feels appropriate, discussing the mood you want to create and knowing roughly what is going to happen during the session can make a huge difference.
The more you understand about what is going to happen, the less mysterious the process becomes, and sometimes that alone is enough to quiet the Judge a little.
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The Comparison
I could probably put Comparison under the Judge, but I think social media has made it important enough to deserve its own category.
Sometimes we avoid taking action based on comparisons. We find excuses to justify staying where we are and not putting ourselves out of our comfort zone. Usually, we say things like, “This person looks good because she is a Hollywood actress,” or “There is a huge budget behind that photo session,” or “Those clothes are designer.” Sometimes, we even tell ourselves that at a certain age, people shouldn’t be in front of the camera anymore, because being visible like that is something for younger generations.
But instead of focusing on the negativity, look at what you actually like about that photograph and what you could do to create something that gives you a similar feeling.
Perhaps it is the lighting, the clothes that create that particular vibe, the posture, the location, the colours, the atmosphere, the way the person is looking at the camera or simply the fact that the photograph communicates something about their personality.
Once you identify what you actually like, you can take that inspiration and create your own version of it.
You don't need to become that person.
In fact, trying to become someone else is probably one of the quickest ways to end up with photographs that don't represent you, and you are likely to feel disconnected from those personal branding or headshot images.
The Stickler
Then we have the Stickler, who believes that everything needs to be perfect before the photograph can happen.
“I need to lose ten pounds first.” That is probably one of the most common things I hear.
I completely understand wanting to prepare yourself before having professional photographs taken. There is nothing wrong with choosing a time when you feel particularly well, getting your hair done, finding clothes that make you feel good or simply giving yourself a little time to prepare.
The problem starts when preparation becomes a condition for allowing yourself to be photographed at all.
Because there will always be something else.
There will always be another few pounds to lose, another wrinkle to worry about, another hairstyle to try, another part of your business that needs to be sorted before you can finally get around to showing yourself.
And meanwhile, your business is moving forward and you are asking people to trust you, work with you and connect with you while the person behind the business remains hidden.
Sometimes, good enough today is much more useful than perfect someday.
The Victim
And finally, there is what I call the Victim, which is closely connected to a lack of self-trust, and this is one of the reasons why some people hide.
These are the people who think they don't have anything to say, who would want to listen to them, and who again convince themselves that they are not good enough to be the face of their business.
The problem here is that you have already decided the result before giving yourself a chance to experience the process.
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But you are not expected to know how to photograph yourself.
That is my job.
My job is to understand how you want to be perceived, help you prepare for the session, guide you through the process and use lighting, composition, posing, expression and the environment to create photographs that communicate something about you.
You don't need to know how to do any of that.
You don't even need to arrive knowing exactly what you want.
This is why I spend so much time talking to my clients before a session. The photography itself is only one part of the process. Understanding who you are, what you do, who you want to attract and how you want people to see you helps me make much better decisions when I am creating your photographs.
You don't need to trust the camera immediately.
You need to start by trusting the process.
And perhaps, eventually, you will trust yourself a little more too.
You don't need to become someone else
I think this is probably the most important part of the whole conversation.
The objective of a professional portrait session is not to transform you into someone else. It is not about creating a version of you that looks nothing like the person who will eventually walk into the meeting with your client.
It is about removing some of the blocks that stop you from seeing yourself objectively.
Sometimes, that means discovering which side of your face you prefer, which clothes make you feel more confident, how you naturally move, which expressions feel more like you or even discovering that the serious expression you normally avoid actually looks fantastic in a photograph.
It can be a process of exploration rather than simply taking a few photographs.
And perhaps one of the biggest surprises is discovering that you have been much harder on yourself than anybody else ever was.
You don't have to be “photogenic” before you come to a professional photography session. You don't need to arrive feeling confident, and you don't even need to particularly enjoy having your photograph taken.
You just need to be willing to explore the possibility that the label you have been carrying around with you might not actually be the truth.
And perhaps that is a much better place to start.
Next Sunday, we are going to explore another reason why you might feel overwhelmed about being the face of your business.
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